I almost didn’t write this one. But I had to. As a senior pastor’s wife, people often spiritualize the loneliness. They thank us for “holding it down” while our husbands are constantly pulled in every direction—sometimes to the point of imbalance. And while I do appreciate the gratitude—it does encourage me—it doesn’t change the reality … Continue reading When Ministry Always Comes First: Real Talk for Pastor’s Wives Who Feel Second