Pastors Wives Handling Church Drama

Let’s face it: handling church drama is one of the hottest, most awkward topics pastors wives deal with behind the scenes. Everyone expects us to stay calm, stay holy, and stay silent while chaos brews around us. We smile through the whispers, the tension, the church politics—and somehow, we’re still expected to lead women’s ministry and show … Read more

What Are the Characteristics of a Pastors Wife?

What Are the Characteristics of a Pastors Wife?

I was thinking about being a pastor’s wife. Actually, I’m always thinking about something, but this time it was about the characteristics of a pastor’s wife or first lady of the church (the latter is relevant if you are a member of an African-American church). Let’s talk about What are the characteristics of a pastors … Read more

Married to the Senior Pastor

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Married to the Senior Pastor – The Life, Challenge, and Normality It never gets old—at least not to those asking me this question. If you’re married to the senior pastor, someone has probably asked you the same thing at some point. “Sister Teri, what’s it like being married to the senior pastor?” Maybe they didn’t … Read more

Caregiver burnout and senior pastors wives

Caregiver burnout and senior pastors wives

Caregiver burnout and senior pastors wives is a match, although not made in heaven. Most people associate caregiver burnout with middle-aged children caring for elderly parents or devoted loved ones supporting those with serious illnesses. In fact, I just spoke with someone in that exact situation. As the only child, she alone carries the heavy … Read more