Simple Encouragement for Pastors Wives
Get along with the people in your congregation.
Being supportive pastors wives during this crazy time is not easy, is it?Wow. Right, Pastor’s Wife? In these unpredictable and often overwhelming times, pastors wives have a powerful opportunity to be a steady, encouraging voice online. Whether it’s sharing a simple prayer, posting a comforting scripture, or checking in on members through a quick message … Read more
I was thinking about being a pastor’s wife. Actually, I’m always thinking about something, but this time it was about the characteristics of a pastor’s wife or first lady of the church (the latter is relevant if you are a member of an African-American church). Let’s talk about What are the characteristics of a pastors … Read more
Getting along with women in the church. Not always easy, pastor’s wife.Advice for pastors’ wives to love – even when it’s difficult. Have you ever met someone you just didn’t like? Tell the truth, pastor’s wife. Sure, you have. It’s part of our normal condition called “humanity”. Now, here’s the deal: have you ever not liked … Read more
Let’s be honest, Sis—this one stings. Every seasoned pastor’s wife has felt it: the quiet pang of discomfort when a woman in the congregation laughs a little too hard at your husband’s jokes, lingers a little too long after service, or finds reason to text him “about the announcement slide.” It’s subtle sometimes, and other … Read more
This is going to be a two-part post called Help! I’m in love with my Pastor.” Note: This post is directed to women who are in love with married pastors. This is a very common problem. You are not alone in feeling this way. I’m in love with my pastor – Not an uncommon phenomenon … Read more
Being a pastor’s wife is complex. On one hand, you want to build relationships with women in your church. On the other hand, you’ve likely been warned—or learned firsthand—that this comes with risk. Building relationships with women in your congregation as a pastors wife can be rewarding, but also requires wisdom, prayer, and intentional boundaries. … Read more